{"id":3476,"date":"2013-10-31T20:05:27","date_gmt":"2013-11-01T01:05:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/?p=3476"},"modified":"2013-10-31T20:05:27","modified_gmt":"2013-11-01T01:05:27","slug":"how-to-keep-family-first-in-ministry-bill-hybels","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/2013\/10\/31\/how-to-keep-family-first-in-ministry-bill-hybels\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Keep \u201cFamily First\u201d in Ministry- Bill Hybels"},"content":{"rendered":"

This week I\u2019ve been traveling through South America with Bill Hybels, who has been sharing leadership coaching and teaching to thousands of leaders.<\/strong><\/p>\n

During one stop in Brazil Bill was asked this leadership question:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cHow do I maintain the priority of my family while leading a growing church?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Here is Bill\u2019s answer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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When I had children, and they started growing up a little bit, I didn\u2019t ask myself how little attention can I give them so I can give my full attention to the church.<\/p>\n

I said, \u201cI want to be a faithful pastor, but I want to be a fantastic father; not a mediocre father, and not an absent father. I want to be a fantastic father.\u201d Even if I\u2019m not a pastor.<\/p>\n

So I spent a lot of time trying to figure out, \u201cWhat do I have to do to be a fantastic father?\u201d<\/p>\n

I met with a lot of other dads, I read a lot of books. I talked to my wife and my children. And then I came up with a strategy for how I could be the best father I could be.<\/p>\n

There were many times when my fathering strategy collided with my church strategy. Now, the family didn\u2019t win every one of those battles. But the church didn\u2019t win every one of them either. We worked it out.<\/p>\n

One more note on this.<\/p>\n

So, we have a large staff at Willow. They work extremely hard. And many of them are young and have young children. And sometimes their kids are sick, or there\u2019s something wrong, and a staff member will say, \u201cI have to go tend to my family.\u201d<\/p>\n

So I give them the same little speech all the time.<\/p>\n

I say, \u201cI want you to flourish here at work. And I want you to flourish in your family. But most of the time, if there\u2019s a direct collision, remember these two words. Family first.\u201d<\/p>\n

There will always be another service. There will always be another bible study. There will always be another prayer meeting. But if your family is under pressure, family first. You\u2019ll never regret it.<\/p>\n

Do you maintain a \u2018Family First\u2019 approach to ministry? How do you keep this priority?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Check back for more leadership insights from Bill Hybels in the coming days.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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