{"id":3989,"date":"2014-07-17T16:23:56","date_gmt":"2014-07-17T21:23:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/?p=3989"},"modified":"2014-07-17T16:23:56","modified_gmt":"2014-07-17T21:23:56","slug":"how-leaders-prevent-falling-off-the-arrogance-cliff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/2014\/07\/17\/how-leaders-prevent-falling-off-the-arrogance-cliff\/","title":{"rendered":"How Leaders Prevent Falling Off the Arrogance Cliff"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>My favorite cartoon has always been The Roadrunner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Every week I\u2019d anticipate that moment when, without fail, the Coyote would find himself running full-speed along a mountain ridge, only to look down and discover that the road had ended. He had run straight off the cliff.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Coyote.jpg\" class=\"btn-image--openpopup figure aligncenter size-full wp-image-3990\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3990\" title=\"Coyote\" src=\"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Coyote.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"592\" height=\"333\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Coyote.jpg 592w, https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Coyote-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Coyote-433x244.jpg 433w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 592px) 100vw, 592px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When it comes to leadership character, I&#8217;ve also seen too many leaders run straight off the cliff without realizing what was happening.<\/p>\n<p>The cliff I\u2019m talking about is that point where a healthy, growing sense of self-confidence suddenly turns into arrogance.<\/p>\n<p>Leaders need confidence. They need to grow in their sense of assuredness and personal resolve. But too many leaders I&#8217;ve seen have failed to stop short of the cliff where self-confidence turns into arrogance.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike healthy self-confidence, arrogance is destructive. It is a deep character flaw that forces all attention onto one\u2019s self, minimizes the contributions of anyone else, and ultimately results in eroded trust.<\/p>\n<p>And when that happens, a plunge to the canyon floor can&#8217;t be far behind.<\/p>\n<p>So how can a leader grow in confidence, but not step over the cliff into arrogance?<\/p>\n<p>The best way is to invite truth-tellers into your life who will let you know when you\u2019re getting a little close to the edge.<\/p>\n<p>Effective leaders I know surround themselves with truth-tellers from these three circles:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The circle of close\u00a0<\/strong><strong>advisers<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Set up a small group of trusted leadership advisers whom you can trust to \u201cspeak the truth in love\u201d when they see character flaws appearing. These can be members of your own board or others higher in the organization.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The circle of senior team members<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>There are likely a few key people on your own team who would have the wisdom, insight and sensitivity to serve you in this way. Give them permission to take you aside when they sense the cliff is approaching.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The circle of trusted outside voices<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The best leaders I know develop a key circle from well outside the realm of their leadership. Such people are interested only in your development and can therefore speak with great candor.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no question that as you grow in your leadership, you\u2019ll grow in your self-confidence. That\u2019s as it should be.<\/p>\n<p>Just be sure you stop well short of the cliff that leads to arrogance.<\/p>\n<p>Because when you plunge off that cliff, not even Acme might be able to save you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you self-confidence from turning into arrogance?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My favorite cartoon has always been The Roadrunner. Every week I\u2019d anticipate that moment when, without fail, the Coyote would find himself running full-speed along a mountain ridge, only to look down and discover that the road had ended. He had run straight off the cliff. When it comes to leadership character, I&#8217;ve also seen&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_bbp_topic_count":0,"_bbp_reply_count":0,"_bbp_total_topic_count":0,"_bbp_total_reply_count":0,"_bbp_voice_count":0,"_bbp_anonymous_reply_count":0,"_bbp_topic_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_reply_count_hidden":0,"_bbp_forum_subforum_count":0,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,738,440,478,7,581,744,585],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3989","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-action","category-effectiveness-2","category-failing","category-featured","category-leadership","category-self-assessment","category-team-2","category-wisdom-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3989"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3993,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3989\/revisions\/3993"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3989"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3989"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3989"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}