{"id":4415,"date":"2015-02-13T16:57:09","date_gmt":"2015-02-13T22:57:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/?p=4415"},"modified":"2015-02-13T16:58:20","modified_gmt":"2015-02-13T22:58:20","slug":"4415","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/2015\/02\/13\/4415\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You a Bridge-Builder or a Wall-Erector?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This month I am traveling with Bill Hybels in Asia, who is coaching leaders in 7 different cities. During our stop in Delhi, India, Bill asked a leadership question that immediately grabbed everyone\u2019s attention, and which should resonate with leaders everywhere.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201dAre you a bridge-builder, or a wall-erector?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/Jakarta-bill1.jpg\" class=\"btn-image--openpopup figure aligncenter size-full wp-image-4416\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4416\" title=\"Jakarta bill\" src=\"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/Jakarta-bill1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"384\" srcset=\"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/Jakarta-bill1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/Jakarta-bill1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/02\/Jakarta-bill1-433x325.jpg 433w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bill asked this question to a group of fired-up leaders at a coaching session in New Delhi, India this week; the final stop on a two week leadership tour we conducted throughout Asia.<\/p>\n<p>Bill raised this vital question in response to a leadership issue that was apparent among some churches in this part of India, and which applies in leadership circles globally.<\/p>\n<p>As a leader, Bill was reminding us, our energies and focus will either result in the bringing together of people, organizations, ideas and communities, or it will drive things further apart.<\/p>\n<p>Effective leaders, Bill taught with great urgency, must devote themselves to being bridge builders.<\/p>\n<p>He used an example of Bridge-Building leadership by talking about a group of churches in Buenos Aires, Argentina who collaborate at a jaw-dropping level. For example, when one of these churches begins a building program, each of the other churches in the community will provide financial support out of their own resources!<\/p>\n<p>As Bill continued to teach about this I began funneling this principle through my own leadership lens. On my notepad I created two columns; one called \u201cBridge Building\u201d and the other \u201cWall Erecting\u201d. I then began to list all of the ways my leadership might contribute to each of these outcomes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wall Erecting:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I become a wall erecting leader when I:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Say anything negative, even in private conversation, about another leader or organization<\/li>\n<li>Do anything less than offer whole-hearted, enthusiastic support and cooperation to other leaders and their organizations<\/li>\n<li>Fail to pro-actively build intentional relationships with these leaders<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>I become a bridge-building leader when I:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Season every conversation regarding other leaders and organizations with words of affirmation,<\/li>\n<li>Pro-actively reach out to offer support and resources<\/li>\n<li>Make it my personal leadership mission to seek the success of those who can\u2019t offer anything to me in return<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>My huge take-away was that, whether we realize it or not, every day as leaders we are either erecting walls or building bridges.<\/p>\n<p>I came away with renewed resolve to leverage my own leadership to be an intentional bridge builder.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How do you build leadership bridges?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This month I am traveling with Bill Hybels in Asia, who is coaching leaders in 7 different cities. 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