{"id":6017,"date":"2018-01-26T23:18:38","date_gmt":"2018-01-27T05:18:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/?p=6017"},"modified":"2018-01-26T23:18:38","modified_gmt":"2018-01-27T05:18:38","slug":"3-secret-handshakes-leaders-must-eliminate-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/2018\/01\/26\/3-secret-handshakes-leaders-must-eliminate-2\/","title":{"rendered":"3 \u2018Secret Handshakes\u2019 Leaders Must Eliminate"},"content":{"rendered":"

The secret handshake.<\/strong><\/h2>\n

For years this covert means of greeting has enabled those on the inside of an organization to privately recognize one another, while ensuring that outsiders were not included.<\/strong><\/p>\n

While most teams do not have a literal secret handshake, many have unknowingly adopted practices that are just as secretive, and just as mystifying to those not in the inner circle.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The problem is, where secret handshakes are allowed to exist, they lead to division, mistrust, and lack of alignment between those on the \u2018inside\u2019, and those on the outside.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For the sake of a healthy culture, it\u2019s up to leaders to identify and eliminate these practices. So what are these secret handshakes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. The Conversational Secret Handshake<\/strong><\/h2>\n

After a while just about every team will develop their own verbal shorthand. Teams, projects and plans will be given nicknames that all of the old-timers will quickly recognize.<\/p>\n

And these names will be utterly mystifying to anyone new to the team.<\/p>\n

Keep an ear open for jargon that no newcomer would ever be able to decipher. And if necessary, eliminate it.<\/p>\n

2. The Operational Secret Handshake<\/strong><\/h2>\n

On my first day on the job at a place I once worked, I showed up at the stated start time, only to discover that everyone had already been there for 30 minutes.<\/p>\n

Later a teammate confided, \u201cOn Mondays we come in early and have breakfast together.\u201d<\/p>\n

It would have been nice if someone had told me that.<\/p>\n

Instead, the organization had incorporated an operational secret handshake. Only insiders and old-timers would know about the breakfast.<\/p>\n

Leaders must identify these secret handshakes and eliminate them.<\/p>\n

3. The Historical Secret Handshake<\/strong><\/h2>\n

This secret handshake can show up in two ways. Sometimes it\u2019s the water cooler chatter about the good ol\u2019 days. At other times it appears when a newcomer suggests an idea or initiative, and a team veteran responds with, \u201cOh, we\u2019ve tried that before\u2026Didn\u2019t work\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

Either way, newcomers find themselves on the outside of the circle.<\/p>\n

Leaders who want a healthy environment. need to weed these out of the culture.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never completely remove these elements from your team. But healthy cultures must be inclusive. They must be embrace the old-timers as much as the \u201cnewbies\u201d.<\/p>\n

And putting an end to the secret handshakes that might pop up is a good place to start.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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