{"id":6375,"date":"2019-02-26T21:07:55","date_gmt":"2019-02-27T03:07:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.scottcochrane.com\/?p=6375"},"modified":"2019-02-27T11:02:20","modified_gmt":"2019-02-27T17:02:20","slug":"3-times-your-truth-telling-is-put-to-the-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/scottcochrane.com\/index.php\/2019\/02\/26\/3-times-your-truth-telling-is-put-to-the-test\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Times Your Truth-Telling Is Put to the Test"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><strong>Everyone likes to be a truth-teller when everything is looking rosy. But the real test of a leader\u2019s character is found when they must speak truth in the tough times.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Who doesn&#8217;t like to be the one who stands in front of the room and announces that the goals have been exceeded? Who doesn&#8217;t like to be the one who meets with the board and announces that the plan has been a resounding success?<\/p>\n<p>Being a truth-teller in the good times is relatively easy.<\/p>\n<p>But the real leadership test comes when times are tough. Can you still stand and deliver the message when the news isn&#8217;t so good? Can you be a truth-teller when goals are not being met, when strategies are floundering, and when teams are struggling?<\/p>\n<p>Leadership is all about rising up and speaking truth in these challenging seasons. But it will mean proving the ability to speak truth in\u00a0three of the most difficult circumstances&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2><strong>1.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>When the truth makes you look weak<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Can you stand up in front of your constituents and say, \u201cWe\u2019re missing our numbers. We\u2019re falling behind our plan. And I am responsible for this.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When spoken out of genuine humility, this kind of truth-telling can project tremendous strength.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>2.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>When the truth makes you look fallible<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>The ability to say, \u201cI don\u2019t know how to do this; the truth is, I need your help\u201d is one of the most profound forms of truth-telling possible.<\/p>\n<p>The best leaders know that,\u00a0when times are tough, it\u2019s necessary to openly acknowledge when it\u2019s time for a little help.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>3.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>When the truth makes you look wrong<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Admitting mistakes is one of the hardest things for many leaders to do.<\/p>\n<p>But when times are tough, saying \u201cI was wrong\u201d is one of the most important words a leader can utter.<\/p>\n<p>Rather than making excuses or assigning blame effective leaders would rather be wrong and truthful, than to appear correct through deception.<\/p>\n<p>The ability to be a truth-teller is core to the character of a strong leader.<\/p>\n<p>But if you want to test your own truth-telling mettle, remember that test isn\u2019t taken when all of the lines are going up and to the right.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to put your character to the test, be willing to stand up when times are tough.<\/p>\n<p>And speak the truth.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone likes to be a truth-teller when everything is looking rosy. 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