The One Leadership Blog You’ll Read NOT about Resolutions

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I’m a believer in setting new goals in a new year.

But there are hundreds of posts readily available today to help you set new leadership targets for 2016.

Today, I want to ask you a very different leadership question: “Is my soul in a better place today than it was a year ago?”

For 365 days you’ve been doing the hard work of leadership. You’ve been:

  • Making tough decisions,
  • Relieving people of their positions,
  • Disappointing people for a greater purpose,
  • Saying “no”,
  • Driving people to achieve objectives,

All of these necessary tasks can take a toll on the leader’s soul.

The writer of Proverbs states emphatically, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Proverbs 4:23). For leaders, this means taking time at the end of a full year to examine the condition of your inner being.

So before you tackle another year, before you set down another list of goals and resolutions, take time to wrestle through these questions. At the end of this year of leadership:

  • Is my heart towards people more, or less, compassionate than a year ago?
  • Am I growing more, or less, irritable than I was a year ago?
  • Does laughter come to me more or less easily than it did a year ago?
  • Is my appreciation of natural beauty more, or less, heightened than it was a year ago?
  • Would people describe me as more, or less, “winsome” than I was a year ago?
  • Is my walk with God more, or less, fulfilling today than it was a year ago?

This list is far from exhaustive, but I would urge you to reflect on these kinds of questions before you even think about tackling a new hill in 2016.

Because while resolutions and goals really ARE important, a healthy soul trumps everything.

As the Proverb says, “everything flows from it”.

How would you assess your own soul at the end of this year of leadership?

Updated from December 31, 2013 post

 

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Scott Cochrane

Lifelong learner, practitioner and coach of leadership, across more than 50 countries. Follower of Jesus, husband of Nora, grateful parent and grandparent.

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